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In one of our previous posts, we explained the various reasons brides forego the wedding veil. An odd choice for a topic, but one worth discussing given that more brides have been scaling down their weddings lately.
One reason we didn’t have the time to look into was inconvenience. Not all brides find the thought of wearing a veil for most of their special day appealing. Perhaps it might get in the way when walking down the aisle or, later, dancing the night away. At worst, a guest steps on the cathedral veil by accident, damaging the delicate tulle.
Then again, do you have to wear a veil all day? Any designer would tell you that they don’t advise keeping it on beyond the ceremony, especially ones that touch the floor. There’s no consequence to putting your intricate lace veil away and enjoying the rest of your big day veil-less, preserving it for you to reminisce on or pass on to your daughter in the future.
We could end the discussion right here, but we want to make sure you have all you need to know. Now that we’ve clarified that brides don’t need to wear their lace wedding veil for the entire day, it’s also worth remembering the ideal times to keep it on.
The duration of the ceremony is a no-brainer, as wedding veils are deeply rooted in ancient wedding traditions. To save you a lengthy read, know that bridal veils protect the bride’s chastity and that parting or lifting it essentially “ties the knot” with the groom. A typical wedding lasts 20-30 minutes, so wearing one shouldn’t be much of a hassle.
Naturally, brides would wait until minutes before the ceremony to don their delicate veil to keep it fresh and intact. If you’re worried about getting your chapel or cathedral length veil snagged while walking down the aisle, you can coordinate with your wedding organizer to ensure the route doesn’t contain obstructions.
The other time to wear a wedding veil is for the camera. Coupled with the appropriate backdrop and poses, wedding veils make for spectacular prenup photos. Veil mishaps are more common here, especially in nature, so it’s a good idea to have a friend or family member just in case.
Some brides tend to keep their veil on until their entrance during the reception. Afterwards, they briefly exit to have it removed.
Of course, some brides insist on donning a veil for the entirety of their special day, whether for fashion or sentimental reasons. That’s fine as long as you take the necessary measures to protect it from accidental damage. Apart from being stepped on, the last thing you want for your veil is to catch fire – which, honest to goodness, happened to a bride not long ago.
One viable solution for long lace wedding veils like chapel and cathedral length is bustling. This process involves securing the middle part of the veil to the comb, typically using pins, to keep it from trailing on the ground. Two bustle pins are enough to secure even a cathedral veil, but you can use as many as four for peace of mind.
The drawback is that bustling only works on veils secured by a comb. Otherwise, the bustle pins won’t have a stable platform to anchor part of the bridal veil.
Another alternative is to invest in two bridal veils, one long for the ceremony and one short for the reception. Short wedding veils don’t extend past your shoulders at most, putting them out of someone’s random step on the floor. Mid-length veils are still a good choice, though you have to pay a bit more attention to how they sway as you move.
Check out our past discussion on choosing the right wedding veil for a breakdown of the measurements of short veils. Shoulder-length veils are usually no more than 56 cm long.
There’s no need to do this if you’re sold on wearing a short veil from start to finish. But if you insist on having a long one for the ceremony, expect this approach to be expensive. You can keep costs down by settling for a less intricate or plain reception veil.
As experienced veil designers, we’d be remiss to see our hard work damaged by a misstep or any mishap. While our advice against wearing lengthy wedding veils after the ceremony still stands, we’re also aware that brides today break traditions to enjoy new experiences.
As such, whether the intricate lace veil stays on all day or not, take these tips to heart to avoid wardrobe malfunctions on your wedding day.
